BECSSHIFT
51Te Aro
Married, open on my side with his knowledge. Hotel or my place when he's away. Keep names off socials. Can do hotels.
Wellington members range from Te Aro apartment-dwellers a five-minute walk from Courtenay Place to Hutt Valley couples happy to cross the bridge for the right connection. Here's what our Wellington membership actually looks like.
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Across every profile listed in Wellington
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20 female · 13 male · 9 couples
From Karori couples exploring their first swap to Island Bay locals who've been part of the scene for years — a sample of verified Wellington profiles sits below. Full photos and details unlock once you join, and looking is free.
Married, open on my side with his knowledge. Hotel or my place when he's away. Keep names off socials. Can do hotels.
New in town for work blocks. Discreet, tested, leave when we're done. I want to fuck with the lights on and no performance.
Not unicorn hunting in the rude way. We move slow, we share photos after a real chat, we don't pester.
Yeah so I overshare and I get bored of apps pretending they're not hookup apps. Starting casual is easier.
Been the third for couples. I don't push past what she is comfortable with. Husband in the room or in the loop.
House in the suburbs, blinds that actually close. Looking for ongoing, not a one-off circus. Based near Mount Victoria.
u up energy but with better hygiene. filthy texts then acting normal at work. if thats ur thing start talking
Open relationship, she knows. I am not sneaking. If that bothers you skip me. Weeknights easier than weekends.
Kids old enough that we get weekends back. Dressing up, spanking, swapping if it feels right. Based near Newtown.
Open to a regular FWB who likes swinging nights as well. I don't need a label. I need follow through. Wellington only unless we already click. I want to be fucked properly, not just messaged.
yeah nah not sure what to write. work nearby. looking for fun I guess Based near Karori. I want to fuck with the lights on and no performance.
Busy, family, this stays low key. Another couple for the odd night. No leaky group chats. Can do hotels.
Have played with couples. Meet both of you first. No secret side chats. MFF is my preference. If he talks over her I'm out. Can do hotels.
Shift worker. When I'm off I want company without a relationship label. Straight talk only. Can do hotels.
Married, together a long time. Looking for a woman to join us. Drinks first, no pressure the first night. He will be present. She leads the pace. Weeknights easier than weekends.
This box is awkward. Dress me up, take me out, then ruin the outfit. Must be able to laugh when plans go sideways. Weeknights easier than weekends.
i dont write essays. if ur nearby and keen say something interesting
We have played once and want it again. Better communication this time. She writes most of the messages. Based near Thorndon.
not great at bios. nights off are random. looking for fun not a lecture Weeknights easier than weekends.
Want a couple who have actually talked this through. I'll fuck her while you watch or join. No last minute jealousy texts. Weeknights easier than weekends.
Looking for a man to join. MMF. She wants to watch and take part. First meet clothed and public.
Been the third before. She has to want me there, not just tolerate it. Happy to kiss her first and see. Can do hotels.
not great at this. just want to meet someone local who likes sex and doesnt play games
looking for a girl to mess around with both of us. must be ok that we leave together after Weeknights easier than weekends.
Work weeks are messy. Not after a boyfriend. Text midweek and actually show up. Drink first. Dry chat and I vanish. Can do hotels.
Switch leaning Dom. Restraint, spanking, instructions that get followed. Not a full time master. I have a job. Weeknights easier than weekends.
Full swap with the right couple. Same room. No disappearing into another flat. Can do hotels.
Long marriage, recently opened. He knows I'm on here. I am hunting spark not a replacement. First meets public. Can do hotels. I want to be fucked properly, not just messaged.
Older guy, still curious. Prefer women who know their own minds. A bit rusty online. Not here to waste time. Weeknights easier than weekends. I want to fuck with the lights on and no performance.
Not interested in being anyone's secret if you're going to panic after. If you can host and keep it discreet, talk to me. Weeknights easier than weekends.
Quiet in public. Different once the door is shut. If you need constant fire emojis I'm not your man. Based near Kelburn.
Sorry my spelling is rubbish I type fast. Looking for casul fun. Dont need heaps of people just one who shows up. Can do hotels.
I like watching my partner with someone else but she wants her own profile time too. On here for both. Can do hotels.
NEW TO THIS. NERVOUS BUT CURIOUS. BE NORMAL PLEASE Can do hotels. I want to be fucked properly, not just messaged.
Been swinging on and off for years. Prefer another couple our age. Chemistry over a wishlist. Weeknights easier than weekends. I want to fuck with the lights on and no performance.
Kids half the week. When I have a free night I don't want dinner theatre. I want to get out of my head. Be tested.
Separated last year. Not rushing anything official. Still like being wanted. Flirting is half the point. Wellington only unless we already click.
Older, blunt, not here to babysit egos. I know what I like in bed. Discretion is non negotiable because of work. I want to be fucked properly, not just messaged.
short version: horny, employed, not crazy. long version ask Weeknights easier than weekends.
Younger men welcome if you actually like women my age. Direct in messages. Don't waste the night. Based near Brooklyn.
I like a man who can take instruction. Control, pacing, being used properly. If you message hey with nothing else I will not reply. Weeknights easier than weekends. I want to be fucked properly, not just messaged.
Want a couple who already know how to share. I like being in the middle, her mouth on me while he fucks me. Slow first drink though. Weeknights easier than weekends.
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