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Dunedin's swinging scene, by the numbers

Dunedin's University of Otago student population turns over every March, alongside a settled local community scattered out to Mosgiel, Port Chalmers and St Clair. Here's what our Dunedin membership actually looks like.

Average age

38

Across every profile listed in Dunedin

Who's here
Female39%
Male42%
Couples19%
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Profiles with at least one photo uploaded

Profiles listed

42

20 female · 13 male · 9 couples

Most-listed interests
MFF42%
MMF34%
Swinging28%
Discreet meets25%
Sub/Dom20%
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Who's active around Dunedin

From St Clair couples who like the beach as much as each other to Mosgiel singles making the short drive into town — a sample of verified Dunedin profiles is below, and looking through them costs nothing.

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Female member

bracken2

39
North East Valley

Curious about bondage that stays playful. Ties, a blindfold, then normal tea after. No creeps.

MMFDressing upMFFHookups
Male member

teatree70

35
North East Valley

WANNA MEET UP NOT TALK FOR 3 WEEKS. IM CLEAN. IF THE VIBE IS RIGHT SAY SO Based near North East Valley. I want to fuck with the lights on and no performance.

MMF
Couple member

titoki9

47 & 47
North East Valley

WANT A COUPLE FOR SATURDAY NIGHTS. SOFT SWAP TO START. LOCAL TO THIS AREA Can do hotels.

MMFMFFSwingingDiscreet meets
Female member

lowtide.glen

28
St Clair

I want my arse spanked until I can't sit at work the next day, then I want to be bent over and used. Aftercare is not optional.

Open to anythingMMF
Male member

craig20

61
St Clair

not great at this. just want to meet someone local who likes sex and doesnt play games Can do hotels.

Open to anythingChat
Couple member

redlightrail_manuk

43 & 39
St Clair

Full swap with the right couple. Same room. No disappearing into another flat.

MFFThreesomes
Female member

ELLISROZ

29
Mosgiel

Older, blunt, not here to babysit egos. I know what I like in bed. Discretion is non negotiable because of work. Dunedin only unless we already click.

HookupsMMF
Male member

gullytrack1

48
Mosgiel

I want to bury my face between her legs while he uses her mouth. Only if you both want that on paper first. Based near Mosgiel.

MMF
Couple member

manukaunights21

40 & 42
Mosgiel

looking for a girl to mess around with both of us. must be ok that we leave together after Based near Mosgiel.

MMFMFFSwingingThreesomes
Female member

marama_becs

42
Caversham

Separated last year. Not rushing anything official. Still like being wanted. Flirting is half the point. Dunedin only unless we already click.

BondageKinky games
Male member

rangi.ferry

60
Caversham

INTO SPANKING AND A PROPER FUCK AFTER. DONT BE WEIRD IN THE FIRST MESSAGE Weeknights easier than weekends.

Kinky gamesMFFThreesomesDressing up
Couple member

kelmarna_east

37 & 35
Caversham

Busy, family, this stays low key. Another couple for the odd night. No leaky group chats.

MMF
Female member

lane_honey

46
Roslyn

Yeah so I overshare and I get bored of apps pretending they're not hookup apps. Starting casual is easier. Based near Roslyn.

HookupsFWB
Male member

dez.nights

44
Roslyn

If you are a couple, write together. I ignore the husband-only accounts that treat her like a listing. Can do hotels.

MMFCasual funOpen to anythingThreesomes
Couple member

redlightrail24

36 & 37
Roslyn

Kids old enough that we get weekends back. Dressing up, spanking, swapping if it feels right. Can do hotels.

Discreet meets
Female member

KAHUWEST

30
Port Chalmers

Been the third before. She has to want me there, not just tolerate it. Happy to kiss her first and see. Weeknights easier than weekends.

DatingDiscreet meets
Male member

nick39

40
Port Chalmers

Quiet in public. Different once the door is shut. If you need constant fire emojis I'm not your man. Can do hotels.

Dating
Couple member

MANUKAUNIGHTSTHI

35 & 40
Port Chalmers

We have played once and want it again. Better communication this time. She writes most of the messages. Based near Port Chalmers.

MMFSwingingDiscreet meets
Female member

marama.nights

55
Mornington

Nights and weekends I'm alive. Days I'm dead. Last minute Saturday yes works. Constant messaging does not.

FWBDressing upSpanking
Male member

teatree.lowkey

36
Mornington

Been swinging on and off for years. Prefer another couple our age. Chemistry over a wishlist. Weeknights easier than weekends.

ThreesomesMFFSpankingBondage
Couple member

titoki.wharfwillow

32 & 33
Mornington

We like a third who can take a cock and still pay attention to her. Hotel works. Our place if we trust you. Dunedin only unless we already click.

Kinky games
Female member

kat5

46
South Dunedin

Have played with couples. Meet both of you first. No secret side chats. MFF is my preference. If he talks over her I'm out. Dunedin only unless we already click.

MFFChatSwinging
Male member

HARBORSALTED

37
South Dunedin

Can host. Clean sheets, blinds down, no photos of my place on your phone. That's the deal. Can do hotels.

FWBDating
Couple member

twoup_den

34 & 34
South Dunedin

Older couple, still at it. Woman who likes being the centre with both of us there. Partner always present. We can host. Weeknights easier than weekends.

Discreet meetsThreesomesSwingingMFF
Female member

ANAMIRA

31
Maori Hill

Shift worker. When I clock off I want someone who will eat me out like they mean it and not ask to stay the week. Can do hotels.

Casual funOpen to anything
Male member

seth_leather

37
Maori Hill

yeah nah not sure what to write. work nearby. looking for fun I guess Based near Maori Hill.

FlirtingOpen to anything
Couple member

PAIRHOUSEKEYS

44 & 41
Maori Hill

House in the suburbs, blinds that actually close. Looking for ongoing, not a one-off circus.

Discreet meets
Female member

kat1

41
Green Island

Not interested in being anyone's secret if you're going to panic after. If you can host and keep it discreet, talk to me. Can do hotels.

MFF
Male member

wiremu55

26
Green Island

Shift worker. When I'm off I want company without a relationship label. Straight talk only. I want to fuck with the lights on and no performance.

BondageSub/DomHookups
Female member

wharf59

45
North East Valley

Long marriage, recently opened. He knows I'm on here. I am hunting spark not a replacement. First meets public. Weeknights easier than weekends.

DatingFWBCasual fun
Male member

lowkey91

52
North East Valley

Gym, work, repeat. Something that doesn't come with homework. Flirty chat is fine. Planning a wedding is not. Dunedin only unless we already click.

Open to anything
Female member

ellis89

45
St Clair

Work weeks are messy. Not after a boyfriend. Text midweek and actually show up. Drink first. Dry chat and I vanish. Dunedin only unless we already click.

Discreet meetsDatingHookupsThreesomes
Male member

gullytrack.jase

38
St Clair

Switch leaning Dom. Restraint, spanking, instructions that get followed. Not a full time master. I have a job. Weeknights easier than weekends.

MFFFWB
Female member

waiata.lowkey

27
Mosgiel

BUSY WEEK. WANT SOMEONE WHO CAN KEEP UP. IF UR FUN AND CLEAN SAY HI Based near Mosgiel. I want to be fucked properly, not just messaged.

Dressing upMMFBondage
Male member

JASENIGEL

30
Mosgiel

Bad at spelling sorry. Woman who likes it a bit rough then a cuppa after. I can host. No drama. I want to fuck with the lights on and no performance.

Kinky gamesThreesomesSub/DomSpanking
Female member

mira45

62
Caversham

not great at bios. nights off are random. looking for fun not a lecture

MMFSwingingOpen to anythingMFF
Female member

bracken.jo

41
Roslyn

Kids half the week. When I have a free night I don't want dinner theatre. I want to get out of my head. Be tested.

ThreesomesSwingingHookups
Female member

marama_peta

36
Port Chalmers

Open to a regular FWB who likes swinging nights as well. I don't need a label. I need follow through. Dunedin only unless we already click. I want to be fucked properly, not just messaged.

Threesomes
Female member

otter6

47
Mornington

u up energy but with better hygiene. filthy texts then acting normal at work. if thats ur thing start talking

HookupsCasual funSee where it goesSwinging
Female member

hana7

29
South Dunedin

NEW TO THIS. NERVOUS BUT CURIOUS. BE NORMAL PLEASE Weeknights easier than weekends.

See where it goesOpen to anythingCasual funFlirting
Female member

ngaio.nzmiss

27
Maori Hill

I go quiet when I'm horny and then I overshare. Looking for someone who can handle both. Based near Maori Hill. I want to be fucked properly, not just messaged.

Sub/Dom
Female member

reef.heat

48
Green Island

Want a couple who already know how to share. I like being in the middle, her mouth on me while he fucks me. Slow first drink though.

SwingingHookupsFlirtingOpen to anything

Sex in Dunedin: who's actually looking, and for what

Dunedin has one of the youngest populations of any NZ city thanks to a University of Otago student body that turns over every year, and that mix of students, academics and a settled local community shapes the scene here: dunedin swingers on this page skew younger than most of the country, with MFF the top interest at 42% ahead of MMF at 34%, swinging itself at 28%, and discreet meets at 25%. Whether sex in dunedin brought you here or you're after more adult entertainment dunedin than a smaller city usually offers, the profiles above are a working sample of who's active — not the whole list, just enough to show you it's real.

Dogging, cruising and outdoor meets around Dunedin

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Where Dunedin connections actually happen

Most Dunedin members move from messaging on the site to a phone call to meeting at a hotel or a private house, same as everywhere else in the country — the hills and the one-way system mean people here plan a meet rather than bump into one, which suits a scene built on discretion. Distance is relative too: Port Chalmers and St Clair are a fifteen-minute drive from the centre, so a lot of "local" activity is really harbour-to-hills.

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