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46Ponsonby
Been the third before. She has to want me there, not just tolerate it. Happy to kiss her first and see. Weeknights easier than weekends.
Auckland's members span the whole city, from Takapuna to Howick, Mount Eden to Titirangi. Here's what our Auckland membership actually looks like.
39
Across every profile listed in Auckland
Members who completed optional ID verification
Profiles with at least one photo uploaded
42
20 female · 13 male · 9 couples
From Ponsonby couples exploring swinging for the first time to Albany singles after something no strings attached — a sample of verified Auckland profiles is below, spanning both sides of the harbour bridge. Photos and full details unlock the moment you join, and looking is free.
Been the third before. She has to want me there, not just tolerate it. Happy to kiss her first and see. Weeknights easier than weekends.
New in town for work blocks. Discreet, tested, leave when we're done.
looking for a girl to mess around with both of us. must be ok that we leave together after Weeknights easier than weekends.
Older, blunt, not here to babysit egos. I know what I like in bed. Discretion is non negotiable because of work. Based near Grey Lynn.
i dont write essays. if ur nearby and keen say something interesting Weeknights easier than weekends.
Busy, family, this stays low key. Another couple for the odd night. No leaky group chats.
short version: horny, employed, not crazy. long version ask Auckland only unless we already click.
Looking for a woman who likes sucking cock without making it a whole personality. Then we can see about more. Based near Takapuna.
New to swinging and a bit awkward. Want a discreet meet with another couple. Soft swap first. Based near Takapuna.
not great at bios. nights off are random. looking for fun not a lecture Auckland only unless we already click. I want to be fucked properly, not just messaged.
Older guy, still curious. Prefer women who know their own minds. A bit rusty online. Not here to waste time. I want to fuck with the lights on and no performance.
Not unicorn hunting in the rude way. We move slow, we share photos after a real chat, we don't pester. Auckland only unless we already click.
Not interested in being anyone's secret if you're going to panic after. If you can host and keep it discreet, talk to me. Weeknights easier than weekends.
I want to bury my face between her legs while he uses her mouth. Only if you both want that on paper first. Weeknights easier than weekends.
She will suck you while I fuck her if the three of us get there. Until then it's drinks and vetting.
I go quiet when I'm horny and then I overshare. Looking for someone who can handle both.
Been swinging on and off for years. Prefer another couple our age. Chemistry over a wishlist.
COUPLE LOOKING FOR A THIRD. SHE IS BI HE IS STRAIGHT. BE RESPECTFUL
Separated last year. Not rushing anything official. Still like being wanted. Flirting is half the point. Auckland only unless we already click. I want to be fucked properly, not just messaged.
Gym, work, repeat. Something that doesn't come with homework. Flirty chat is fine. Planning a wedding is not.
Kids old enough that we get weekends back. Dressing up, spanking, swapping if it feels right. Auckland only unless we already click.
If you can't say what you want sexually don't write. I like oral, I like being watched, I like leaving before breakfast. Auckland only unless we already click.
Bad at spelling sorry. Woman who likes it a bit rough then a cuppa after. I can host. No drama. Auckland only unless we already click.
we dont really know how to sell ourselves. normal couple who got curious. patient people only
Younger men welcome if you actually like women my age. Direct in messages. Don't waste the night. Weeknights easier than weekends.
Trades, early starts. Not looking to move in. A regular no-stress thing. I can host most weeknights after 7.
We like a third who can take a cock and still pay attention to her. Hotel works. Our place if we trust you. Based near Devonport.
Want a couple who already know how to share. I like being in the middle, her mouth on me while he fucks me. Slow first drink though.
Been the third for couples. I don't push past what she is comfortable with. Husband in the room or in the loop. Can do hotels. I want to fuck with the lights on and no performance.
Work weeks are messy. Not after a boyfriend. Text midweek and actually show up. Drink first. Dry chat and I vanish. Can do hotels.
Switch leaning Dom. Restraint, spanking, instructions that get followed. Not a full time master. I have a job.
Long marriage, recently opened. He knows I'm on here. I am hunting spark not a replacement. First meets public. Based near Remuera.
not great at this. just want to meet someone local who likes sex and doesnt play games
This box is awkward. Dress me up, take me out, then ruin the outfit. Must be able to laugh when plans go sideways. Can do hotels. I want to be fucked properly, not just messaged.
Open relationship, she knows. I am not sneaking. If that bothers you skip me.
Travel a lot. I vanish two weeks then I'm free on a Tuesday. Hate clingy. Based near Herne Bay.
Open to a regular FWB who likes swinging nights as well. I don't need a label. I need follow through. Weeknights easier than weekends.
BUSY WEEK. WANT SOMEONE WHO CAN KEEP UP. IF UR FUN AND CLEAN SAY HI Can do hotels.
Curious about bondage that stays playful. Ties, a blindfold, then normal tea after. No creeps.
idk what to put lol. new here. just seeing what this even is Based near Mount Eden.
NEW TO THIS. NERVOUS BUT CURIOUS. BE NORMAL PLEASE I want to be fucked properly, not just messaged.
Yeah so I overshare and I get bored of apps pretending they're not hookup apps. Starting casual is easier. Auckland only unless we already click.
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